My wife has wanted to do nothing but lay in bed
and cry since she found out that a part of our family
has been taken away from us because of a minor infraction
on our part on a contract we signed. Our story is quite
simple, yet it is one I feel needs to be heard by anyone
even thinking of adopting a pet from companies such
as S.C.A.R.S. Before we got married my wife and I felt
the need for family. We felt that it was not right to
have any children until after we were married but still
felt a void in our life. After long discussion we decided
that a pet was the way to go. We looked everywhere for
the perfect pet. My own experience has been with dog’s
mostly larger breeds. I wanted one for more then just
companionship but also for protection for my wife when
I’m at work. After extensive searching through
breeds and looking at puppy after puppy we finely found
the perfect one. She was about 6 weeks old, one of thirteen
in the litter and the most beautiful Rottweiler I had
ever seen. We bought her on the spot and named her Cyro.
She immediately became our baby. We had had her for
just over a year and took her on her first camping trip.
My whole family was there and they all brought their
dogs. Cyro was so happy. She ran and played with all
the other dogs for 5 days straight never once having
any problems not even so much as a growl was heard.
After returning from the camping trip it became clear
to us that Cyro was depressed. She needed the company
of other dogs. We took her to the off leash park daily
to socialize with other dogs and she could not get enough
of it. Yet when she was at home we could still tell
she wanted someone her own size to play with.
My
wife and I sat down and discussed it and decided it
would be best if we got another dog. The search began
again. We search high and low for the perfect addition
to our family. One day while in the pet store we met
Maggie. Both my wife and I knew that she was the one.
A beautiful Rottweiler lab cross. She was currently
in the care of a company by the name of S.C.A.R.S. We
immediately filled out an application to adopt Maggie
and couldn’t wait to hear from them. We heard
from them after a short time and were asked to bring
Cyro out to meet Maggie, Maggie showed signs of anti-social
behavior and seemed to really need her space she didn’t
get along with all dogs so we agreed and brought Cyro
as soon as we were allowed. They got along instantly
and began running around the yard and playing instantly.
For us that sealed the deal we wanted Maggie in our
family. We paid the fees, signed the paper work and
were off with the newest edition to our family. Their
have been bumps in the road but believe me when I say
that we could not have been happier and neither could
Cyro and Maggie. They quickly became inseparable, or
so we thought.
In
the contract we signed there was a clause that Maggie
had to be spayed and until such time she would not be
considered ours. Maggie was still very timid and needed
time to get used to her new surroundings. We have only
had her for two months now and until very recently she
was still visibly uncomfortable. She was very happy
but if you raised your voice to tell her “no”
when she was getting in to something she was not supposed
to she would run and hide in the shed and not come out
for some time. It has only been about two weeks now
that she has stopped hiding and started realizing regardless
of what she doesn’t have to run and hide. To us
this told us that she was finally officially completely
comfortable with this family. Now that this has happened
my wife made an appointment to have Maggie spayed. Unfortunately
due to my catching the flu we were unable to keep the
appointment and hadn’t re-scheduled it. Two weekends
ago, 6 weeks after our adopting Maggie we received the
first and only phone call from the former foster family,
the daughter in the family had just started school and
as a reward for her first week the mother had contacted
me and asked if she could bring her daughter over to
see Maggie. I said “yes defiantly that would be
nice for both of them”. Unfortunately they did
not get a hold of us before they stopped by that day
and could only see Maggie from outside the fence. Once
we arrived home we had checked our phone messages and
received a message from the family. We immediately returned
the call and asked them if they wanted to come by. They
we not able to as they were already on their way home
but a conversation ensued between my wife and the mother
of the family in which she asked if Maggie had been
spayed yet. My wife was honest with her and told her
“no we haven’t yet but we are planning to
do so”. Another week had gone by (which brings
us up to this last Thursday) and we had not yet made
the appointment, Somehow Maggie managed to get out of
the back yard while we were at work and was picked up
by the pound. My wife arrived home at 3:00pm to find
Maggie missing. The first thing she did was contact
the neighbors who said they haven’t seen her then
she contacted the pound that confirmed that they did
pick her up. So my wife asked to come and get her but
the pound refused to release her to us because since
she was not yet spayed she was not considered to be
ours. Upon finding this out she immediately called and
made the appointment which was to be for this Tuesday,
then she called the former foster family and explained
the situation and asked to go get Maggie. The response
she received was that they couldn’t that day and
wouldn’t be able to the next. My wife then asked
what to do with no response. She then asked if they
would please call us to let us know when we could go
get her, they responded that yes they will call us.
My
wife lay on the couch extremely depressed all evening.
This brings us to today. After arriving at work my wife
made a call to the pound to check on how Maggie did
over night. The pound was still closed. She later called
on her break to find out Maggie had in fact been picked
up the night before. She then called the former foster
family to find out what was going on and the answer
she received was that they had decided to not give Maggie
back to us because she had not yet been spayed. Following
this phone call my wife called me at work crying so
hard I could barely make out what the problem was. She
then had to take a leave from work because she could
not cope with this loss. Tonight she has been very depressed
along with Cyro. We all feel that we have lost a large
part of our family. This company claims to be watching
out for the best interest of the pets but I ask you
this, is it not more important that a pet have a loving
secure family where it feels comfortable and safe then
it is to meet some deadline that a company made up.
It’s not as though we had no intentions of spaying
Maggie in fact we do believe it is important unfortunately
we had been unable to accomplish that goal yet. Instead
of talking to us and ensuring that Maggie was going
to be spayed they choose to rip apart a family and once
again move a pet to yet another family, one they know
nothing about and can only hope will treat her right.
Personally I think it causes more damage to an animal
to continually move them around and as soon as they
get settled move them again because the family, regardless
off how they treated the animal, and regardless of how
happy the animal is, was a little slow in fulfilling
a minor part of the contract the we had signed. I can
understand if someone out and out refuses to do what
they had promised, but to tear a family apart simply
because we took too long to fulfill what should be the
least of the worries is simply cruel to both the pet
and the family. I thank everyone who has taken the time
to read this letter and apologies to those think I’ve
wasted their time. My family (what’s left of it)
would greatly appreciate you feedback on this matter
if you care to give it to me. My e-mail address is brphunder@
hotmail.com.
I
also ask that you post and send this message where ever
and to who ever may listen and want to help us get our
Maggie back.
If
you care to send an email to the company responsible
for this please do so at [email protected]
They also have a website at http://scarscare.org/contact.asp
I do feel that their heart is in the right place but
that their focus is on the wrong thing, at least in
this case. Again our sincere thanks for your time.
Goodnight
Blake
and Melissa Hunder |